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As the saying goes: "We all have our kinks.
But having kinks doesn't make you a sex freak at all! It makes you normal, according to Justin Lehmiller, Ph. While few studies have looked at how often people engage in sexual kinks, Lehmiller's book, Tell Me What You Want now available in paperbackreveals how often people fantasize about them—arguably a more telling metric, since plenty of people have kinks but don't act on them.
After surveying 4, Americans from all 50 states, Lehmiller found that most people had fantasized about at least one kink before.
Below, in his own words, Lehmiller spells out the most common kinks and fetishes he came across in his research. BDSM obviously reflects a wide spectrum of behaviors, from mild to wild, and most people are at the more mild end, with fantasies about taking on dominant or submissive roles, tying mild kinks a partner or being tied up, and engaging in light sadomasochism think spanking and biting being the most common.
People are drawn to BDSM for multiple reasons. Fetish fantasies involve a focus on specific objects like boots or stockings or non-genital body parts like feet or armpits. However, there can also be a taboo element to them, as well as an overlap with BDSM, such as when someone fantasizes about another person stepping or walking all over them.
Many people reported fantasies in which specific body fluids played a big role. Unsurprisingly, male and female ejaculate were the most common, with a majority of men and women having fantasized about them before.
However, other body fluids appeared with some frequency, too. Fantasies about watching someone else undress or have sex are very common. A lot of people fantasize about putting on a show.
Consensual exhibitionism fantasies are likely driven by a few things—amping mild kinks the excitement by having spectators and knowing that other people find you attractive or sexy. Some of my participants fantasized about taking on different roles and ages. Many of us become different people—and sometimes different creatures—in our fantasies because it provides an escape from self-awareness, allowing you to focus more on sex rather than yourself.
However, furry fantasies might also be appealing for some as a form of novelty and adventure. For example, I found that about 1 in 4 cis persons had fantasized about cross-dressing, while about 1 in 3 had fantasized about trading bodies with someone of another sex. These fantasies are sometimes about a desire to break free of traditional gender roles or to explore the self; however, there was also a lot of overlap with BDSM.
Fantasies about watching your partner have sex with someone else are very common, especially among men. Cuckolding fantasies can be appealing for a of reasons.
It turns out that a lot of people are into the idea of incorporating food with sex. Most commonly, this included things like ice cubes, strawberries, and whipped cream.
The appeal of mixing food and sex is partly about novelty, or the desire to try new and different things. United States. Type keyword s to search. Today's Top Stories. Pieter Cohen, M. Vincent Besnault Getty Images. Tell Me What You Want. You may be able to find the same content in another format, or you may be able to find more information, at their web site.
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The Most Common Fetishes in the U.S.