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Being submissive is just another role that a woman can take up every now and then in her relationship with a high value, masculine man. IF your submissiveness is received by a man with love and respect. The key point here is that you need to do this inside a healthy relationship.
If you want to know if your relationship is healthy, here are 10 Ultimate s of A Healthy Relationship. Being submissive — whether in a joking or serious way can awaken the most masculine yet tender character in a man.
Being submissive just allows for a man to feel more like a man around youand — as a result, have that extra bit of passion for you. Part of being in touch with your femininity is feeling all the different parts of yourself that you can feel in your body. This is about accepting that there are many different parts of you.
You are not just one kind of woman! Submission is a part of learning to become more feminine as well. So, the question of how to be looking for a submissive woman le me to bringing up some things that you will need to understand and therefore be able to be submissive at times. Many of us naturally feminine women have gotten the message that we need to hide it away. We as women now have to be right, be smart and be intelligent too.
Nothing wrong with all of that. I personally went to law school and got myself a law degree.
However, I quickly realised that it did not help me in my relationship whatsoever! Many women have learned that they need to be like steel in the face of conflict. That is definitely not how to be submissive at all. A man really wants his woman to be open to him, and to let him in emotionally, mentally, sexually, spiritually. He also gets to feel more of a man in the process of feeling your submissiveness and dominating you hopefully from a place of love. The problem with this comes when you face of conflict inside of a relationship. Yet in the face of conflict, many women often use these steel masks to cover up the natural parts of themselves that would come out when in moments of connectedness with a man.
In the face of conflict, a woman can decide to open up to her man and remove the mask.
So, let him in and try to let him take the lead — try to trust him even when it feels unfamiliar to trust. The truth is, in general, men are built naturally physically stronger than women. Deep down, all women have vulnerabilities and deep fears and feelings of uncertainty, especially in the face of violence.
Places you can never go by yourself. Every day there are men out there standing up for what is right. If you always assume bad intent in a man and let your feminine love be capped by your resentmenthow can a man ever be a man around you? Example 1: Being submissive is also about trusting your man enough to let him show you the way sometimes.
Many women ask how not to be boring in their relationship. And guess what, this is just one of the ways to not be boring. Surrender and allow your man the gift of your submissiveness! Example 2: Also, you can ask him for help. Asking him for his opinion, or asking him for solutions is another method through which you can be submissive in a relationship. Many men who are in touch with their masculinity at their core would jump at the chance to help a woman with something — really! It makes him feel needed, and useful.
So, ask him for help even with the smallest things like bringing the shopping in, opening a jar, carrying something heavy, undoing a knot, etc. Give him trust where you know it is deserved, and do it without question.
The masculine energy wants to be trusted. If you doubt your man all the time, it feels hurtful. It drains from the relationship bank! Example 3: Know that he wants to have good direction to add to your life, so verbally thank him and appreciate him for gifting you with direction. Is your man serious about committing to you?
This is because each mistrust is possibly stripping him of hope, as well as stripping him of his trust in you and the relationship! You just express your fear when you know he may well be wrong. You just have to behave as a woman who is willing to show that you are open to him even when he is wrong.
What you want to avoid, is fighting to be top dog in the relationship. This would crush his masculine soul. Instead, to add value to your relationship, would you prefer to suggest to him that it makes you feel scared and nervous because of list reasons? As a woman who is learning to give a man the gift of being submissive, of course you would choose the second option. Of course, if this is a man who is constantly making bad decisions, you may not want to stay with him long-term.
However, the principle of learning to show up more submissive and open in your feminine energy is the same. Choose to value openness MORE than cutting him down and emasculating him. Ultimately, inside of a healthy relationship, it should be more important to looking for a submissive woman to value openness, than it is to value cutting him down.
Because being open and surrendering adds to the passion, attraction and connection inside of a relationship. Whereas being domineering just takes value from the relationship and ruins the connection. The same protective instinct applies with their wife or girlfriend, if only she could show a little innocence and submission — looking up to him as the leader.
Innocence can also erode with a very high of sexual partners as well as with the of toxic relationships you have been in. We are encouraged to do things that basically ruin our innocence from a young age. A girl who is well loved and who feels pretty and beautiful. What does her energy feel like? Is she warm or cold? Is she hyperactive or calm? Is she vengeful or vulnerable? Despite you having a possibly traumatic upbringing, CAN you find it within yourself to connect to an innocent looking for a submissive woman pure girl within you?
You see, no high value, masculine man wants to fail at leadership, especially with his woman. To be submissive, a woman has to be OK with being uncertain. Just look to your man as a possible source of strength for you when you might need it. A lot of people think that by not trusting people, they are being strong, independent and smart. We walk around, holding ourselves back, not able to be free and to let go, and to fully enjoy what life has to offer. We become unable to give people a chance to show their better side often if you trust someone, they want to please you MORE.
Read my article about what is a strong woman. The quality of your relationship with your man is in direct proportion to the level of uncertainty that you can handle. By surrendering, you give your relationship the chance to be more real and just be free. Without so much pent up anger and negative association that plagues many modern marriages and relationships. Men can come to resent a woman who is always fighting to be more ificant than he is.
By letting her guard down, a woman can start the process of letting him in: being open to him. Also, being able to surrender shows that you have plenty of self confidence and esteem as a woman. This means you are not the kind of woman looking for a submissive woman just has to prove yourself and be in control all the time. The root of our anxiety in a relationship with a man and the root of our conflict with men is not being able to understand them. What men perceive as high value is often very different to what we perceive value in as women.
If you want to learn how to add value to men, then check out Understanding Men. By the way, I want to teach you 5 secrets to having your man fall deeply in love with you and beg you to be his one and only. These 5 secrets are inside of my brand new program. I hope you enjoyed this. Any concerns or thoughts, be sure to let me know! If you want to be supported by a warm community of high value feminine women, then our Facebook Group. Together with her husband D. Yes, I am about 5 feet and 2 inches tall. I run … ». What about men lowering their guard?
He should too. I wish I could be submissive, but my husband wants me to take care of everything…bills, work, kids, house work, dinner, cleaning, etc. It is very little he takes on. It gets on the way of his comfort levels. He likes everything in order with very minimal effort. Even in our intimate times, which are very seldom, he just lays there and expects me to do all the work. If I do not initiate it, he wont. Sometimes I have even not initiated intimacy for weeks and months and he, plain and simple would just not engage on it.
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I am new to this and actually dont want to come accross as being uneducated, I have spend hours and hours reading and researching this topic,due to advice that the man I have been seeing gave me. At first, I honestly thought that this new found remarkble man was just going to be a sex partner for me to get over a looking for a submissive woman ling relationship. I was so intrigued by his expectations in the bedroom as well as very pleased that i began asking him questions, and to my surprise realized that i wanted nothing more than to give him … ». I was raised to be more dominant than submissive.
Not until I got married did I understand the importance of submissiveness and femininity. It has made a world of difference in my relationship! I also came across a book called Fascinating Womanhood that radically changed my life. I would definitely recommend checking it out. There are times where I go back to the way I was raised maybe during arguments for example and the are … ». This is a great column. It took me over 9 yrs. It has made a world of a difference and because of it no matter what problems or situations we go thru we continue to strive on together.
Thank you so much. It feels good to have a man that can lead our family. This is a great article. Pleasers are very annoying and Renee discussed how this is not healthy in a relationship and will push a man away. I found this article to be very enlightening.
Gradually his attacks and mood swings caused me to begin taking more responsibility for myself. Something that seemed unnatural in a relationship but seemed to be the best way to avoid pain and quarrels. He would often say he doesnt know what it was that made him so discontented because he lived in paradise and should be happier.
I often felt that maybe he … ». I just wanted to say that I really liked this post an ive been tryingto find ways to be more womanly for my man and this article gives you simple tips.
So thanks for that.Looking for a submissive woman
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How to Be Submissive In A Relationship