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By Jessica Roy. Sherrybaby download. Some people spend hours at shitty work-study jobs pretending to look busy while actually browsing Facebook, but one NYU student — -who goes by the name Mistress Ava — -wears leather, humiliates people and gets paid for it. When I came back to NYC, I started making a few bucks here and there off Craigslist and when classes ended and I was without a job, I made the decision to apply to dungeons and make it official.

J : How easy was it to break into the business?

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A : It was rather easy because I fit the role, but emotionally it was incredibly taxing. J : Local dominatrix kind of things did your job entail? For instance, anything involving penetration on a male. There is no sex involved whatsoever but they can ask for strap-on play and that was never on the menu with me. J : Did you make a lot of money, as in, a lot more than you would in an NYU work-study job? A : The money is by far the best part of it. Working retail or something you make, at best, maybe 12 or 13 dollars an hour. For an hour of my time in the dungeon, I put at least dollars in my pocket.

The one thing that all of the girls in this line of business have in common is money savvy and the ability to save because, for a good amount, this occupation is just a lucrative business move. J : What was the weirdest encounter you had? Instead he wanted to local dominatrix at an hourly-hotel in Chelsea. When you make an appointment, the scenario has already been agreed upon and he was the only person who ever refused to accept that.

I knew I was stronger than he was and that I could escape if I needed to but it was still rather unnerving. Thank God the whole thing was over very quickly, but it turns my stomach to this day. J : I think a lot of people have the idea that working as a dominatrix would entail having sex with the clients.

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Why do you think people come to the dominatrix clubs? Local dominatrix is no sex and no nudity inside a dungeon. Sure, there are places that bend the rules and give the job a bad name but I was never once naked or even close to it, and no one ever did anything to me, period.

Girls who do those kinds of sessions are usually more connected to the act than I ever was and so, for them, it is also somewhat sexual. However, none of the things on the menu for an average couple — -kissing, handjobs, fingering, oral, penetration — -are on the menu at a dungeon. Instead there is pony play, medical sessions, spanking, flogging, CBT, wrestling, wax play, needle play, etc. Everybody is entitled to get theirs just the way they want it and a dominatrix makes that happen the best they can. J : What were your biggest fears going into it?

A : My biggest fear was the future. Where would this take me? What would people say? Would my parents find out?

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How would the guy I was dating react? What about the guys after him? Am I ruining my life? I just had no idea how it would play out and that was terrifying. A : I remember watching Law and Order with my parents and every now and again there would be a dungeon plot and I was already so intrigued. Beautiful women wrapped tight local dominatrix leather with all the power — -it seemed incredible and it was for a little while. When it came down to it and I needed money, I looked into domming. J : How long did you work as a dominatrix and what made you decide to stop? A : I worked, unprofessionally for a few months about a year and a half ago and then I spent the summer as a professional.

I stopped because classes were starting and it was becoming too much to hide, simple as that. No horror story.

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J : Any suggestions for other NYU students wanting to become dominatrixes? There has to be a balance in the humors — -you have to be simultaneously extremely serious but also relaxed enough not to vomit or cry or laugh, unless humiliation is on the agenda. Its not like I had a job at Hooters to look back and laugh at. One in particular begged me to incorporate my industry skills into our own practice and then condemned me for it in the morning.

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